“The techniques we practice using breath and eye gazing have raised our sexual fulfillment to new heights!” ~ Tantra Student
“Tantra Stories” is a series of touching testimonials from our Source School of Tantra Yoga seminar students. This story is written by a married woman who rediscovered the power of her orgasms after attending a Tantra Seminar. Learn more about our Tantra Seminars HERE!
My husband introduced me to Tantra practice nine years ago. While our sexual play has been good, I never fully appreciated the joy of just receiving during a sexual practice or ritual. I always felt the experience was not complete unless we both “got off”.
After attending the Beginners Weekend Seminar with Charles Muir, I learned to thoroughly enjoy, with my body and spirit, the gift my husband was giving me through “sacred spot” massage.
Receiving sacred spot massage is a healing and ecstatic experience. I was amazed at the emotions that flowed through me.
At first, I would feel numbness and then I would start to get twinges of excitement.
At one point I got incredibly sad and started to cry uncontrollably because I thought I had lost the orgasm that had been building for some time.
Then I began to laugh and did not know why.
I also realized I had stifled my vocalizations over the years, as we have small children at home. It was great to let roar that deep throaty moan which I learned is a wonderfully-effective way to enhance sexual energy and strengthen orgasms.
Over my lifetime I had developed the habit of closing my eyes during sex, especially when kissing. Through our teachers’ loving instruction, I became very conscious of keeping my eyes open during the ritual, to strengthen the spiritual connection with my lover. Wow, it has made such a difference. The techniques we practice using breath and eye gazing have raised our sexual fulfillment to new heights.
During the sacred spot massage, I experienced several full-body mind-blowing orgasms. I visualized the energy flowing up my body and subsequently felt the energy shoot out the top of my head, all the while remembering to continue breathing and stay present.
For many years, though I felt our sex was adequate, I was not receiving regular, powerful orgasms. I believed my husband was not giving me his full love and attention, or that there was something wrong with me for not being able to experience the joy.
After giving up any expectations and just being fully present in the moment, I realize, now, how easy it is to reach ecstatic joy and appreciate my husband’s love. He has always been there for me. I just finally got it!
~ K.W. Tantra Student